拉波波特在与丹尼特的通信过程中,令后者想到了成功的反驳和批评究竟应该长什么样。1.You should attempt to re-express your target's position so clearly, vividly, and fairly that your target says, "thanks, I wish I'd thought of putting it that way." 你应该用你自己的话,清晰、生动、公平地重新表述你对手的观点和论证,以至于你的对手居然会说“谢谢,要是我能想到那么表述就好了。”2.You should list any points of agreement(especially if they are not matters of general or widespread agreement).你应该列出你和对手一致同意的观点。3.You should mention anything you have learned from your target.你应该提到你从对手那里学到的新东西。4.Only then are you permitted to say so much as a word of rebuttal or criticism.然后,你才允许做出反驳或批评。丹尼特认
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