图片：位于加州欧亥（Ojai）的美国克里希那穆提静修中心One is attached to one's wife, tremendous attachment. What is implied in that attachment? One cannot stand by oneself, therefore I must depend on somebody, whether it is a husband or some psychiatrist, or some guru, and all that tommy rot! Where there is attachment there is fear of loss, there is a sense of deep possessiveness and therefore it breeds fear, you know all this.某人执着于他的妻子，无比的执着。这种执着中隐含了什么？我无法独立，因此我必须依靠某人，不管是妻子、丈夫、精神病医生还是古鲁，所有这些荒唐事！当有了执着，就会有失去的恐惧，有一种深深的占有感，由此滋生了恐惧。你知道这一切。So can we look at the fact of our relationship and discover for ourselves the place of thought in relationship. As we said, thought is limited, which is a fact. And if in our relationship thought plays a prominent fac
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