路不在脚下，路在心里

人与人交往更多的不是改变对方而是接受对方如果光想着改变对方那不是生活，那是战争 命运不是一个机遇问题而是一个选择问题它不是我们要等待的东西而是我们要实现的东西 把弯路走直的人是聪明的因为找到了捷径把直路走弯的人是豁达的因为可多看几道风景路不在脚下，路在心里 ---加措活佛Relating to others is more about accepting them thanchanging them. If you try to change another, that is called battling ratherthan living. Destiny is not a matter of chance, but a matter of choice; it isnot what we wait for but what we put into action. Those who walk a straightpath on a crooked road are clever, because they have found a shortcut; thosewho walk a winding path along a straight road are more open, because they areable to enjoy more of the scenery. The road is not at your fee ………………………………