OPPORTUNITIES.
Nothing Susie is born with or into can make her choose a specific perception or behavior.
Nobody can make her to think or do.
new words: Jadite 翡翠 absidian 黑曜石 gem
Lifestyle plan
when I was young, I have been very happy---innocent childhood, being loved. I was the focus of the family and nearby, top students in the school.
I have a great amout of superior over others. I think I am the center of the world---I konw nothing about the ourtside world.Men are superior, not stricted and can do anything, lazy. Women are diligent, warm, devote to the family, given much less freedom as men, As I watched a lot of TV series, love stories, WUXIA stories, I have formed an unrealistic picture of love--single-minded, romatic, love till death.
Life is fantastic, funny and interesting. I want to grow up to be a strong woman and do what man can do.
Take away
As parents, instead of giving answers to the children, we should guilde them to the right path. We are the guider not controlling/forcing them. we can ask them questions like, how would you do with BF/GF? what do you want to build? what help do you need?
I still remember some sentence from a book: when we are young and like snail, parents are our shells and protect us. When we grow up we become theirs shells, they become weaker and weaker. When parents grow old, and we are the extension of their life. Be nice to our parents as best as we can if we still have time.
Get warmed by some's dady's birthday gift----10 pages letter.
Children's health. read a story about--swimming “you kill my intrest”. Send children to do some sports, swimming, playing ball or anything.
