▲QUORALearn to be alone and to depend on yourself. Don't date anyone before you date yourself. It is the most important basis of a healthy relationship.Charissa Enget, Blogger. Engineer. Living in rural Thailand.73.1k Views · 4k UpvotesAs I was sitting on the beach with my friend Courtney, she turned to me and said, "You know, I really love Landon. I'm going to marry him. But, if he were to leave me, I would be okay." They had been dating for four years and her boyfriend was asking her dad that summer if he could have her hand in marriage. They were very happy and comfortable together.It was a stark contrast to my old roommate. In the four years I had known her, she had been single less than two weeks. Every time she became single, it had not been her choice. After each breakup, she had immediately gotten a new man within days. Eventually she settled with a guy who emotiona
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